Love Tactics - How I Learned to Captivate Like the Jerks Without Turning Into One!!
Love Tactics - How I Learned to Captivate Like the Jerks Without Turning Into One!!: "combine the independent boldness of the jerks with the caring attitude of the nice guys, you'll find that you've stumbled upon a winning combination."
The way to do this is to go on being nice, but show that you can survive very well without having someone. Show the emotional strength that says, "I may be interested, but I can be very happy in my life with or without you!"
This combination of qualities will win any heart you want, over time. Yes, it does take a little while and that is where endurance comes into play. But like the fable of the race between the tortoise and the hare, it is the slow, sure method that bring you victory in the end.
You can win the One You Want! And you don't have to be a jerk in doing so. You just have to make up your mind to be strong enough to go on being nice and showing that you?re really unfazed by someone's rejection of you in the interim. In the long run, it is the independent and strong nice guy who not only wins the one he wants, but keeps her as well!!