Friday, October 01, 2004

Love Tactics - What to Do When the One You Want Doesn't Want You Back!

Love Tactics - What to Do When the One You Want Doesn't Want You Back!: "In the Love Tactics SystemTM at we teach many techniques to proactively cultivate the friendship of the One You Want, while at the same time commanding respect, but they all come down to this one fundamental principle: You demonstrate that you're unfazed by their rejection, showing that they don't have to love you, but still maintaining a positive relationship with them in the meanwhile. It's important that they sense you don?t take their resistance personally!"

Just humbly accept the initial lack of reciprocation shown towards you as your token of respect for their right to love whomever they want.

Fourth, don?t push harder, but don?t give up either. After backing off for a short while, assert yourself in friendship towards them.
They may still be a little mistrustful of your motives, but once they become convinced that you fully accept being their friend, without needing to be their lover, they will then in due course accept your friendship. This, in turn, will become the foundation over time to eventually establish true romantic love.

Fifth, cultivate their FRIENDSHIP by not only being supportive emotionally to them, but by continuing to demonstrate your own emotional independence and, over time, even a bit of elusiveness on your part. When friendship is properly cultivated in this way it will eventually ripen into true romantic love.

You see, if you handle this right the fish never even realizes for the most part that it is being reeled in! This is because whenever the fish shows a lot of fight and resistance, the wise fisherman gives out just enough line to reassure it that he or she is still free. The fisherman never exerts any real force or pull in an all out battle of wills, until the fish is so tired of resisting and fleeing that it doesn't really care anymore to resist.


Blogger Phil Latio said...

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December 1, 2004 at 11:25 PM  

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